
Julie Giovannetti Dating Coach Bay Area
For couples ready to reach their relationship goals
You met, fell in love, got married, and envisioned living happily ever after. The perfect story. Cue the Hallmark movie credits.
But real life doesn’t always play out like that, does it?
Life is full of twists and turns, and relationships often face unexpected challenges. You might feel disconnected from your partner, unappreciated, or misunderstood. The good news? With a willingness to learn and put in the effort, you can build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. You can discover how to communicate openly, express gratitude, and make each other a priority in meaningful ways.
You’re not alone, and there’s no judgment here.
Are you seeking guidance and tools to achieve your relationship goals? Do you long for a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to heal and strengthen your connection? Are you ready to create a lasting bond with your partner built on love, respect, and understanding?
Most importantly, are you ready to rediscover and maintain the connection that brought you together in the first place?
My Process
Work With a Bay Area Dating Coach Who Wants To Transform Your Love Life
Go from…
- Feeling undervalued, unheard, and disconnected from your partner.
- Struggling with trust issues, a fractured foundation, and uncertainty about your future together.
- Finding it hard to carve out time in your busy lives to nurture and prioritize your relationship.
To…
- Developing habits of appreciation and acknowledgment over time to strengthen communication and cultivate a thriving, loving relationship.
- Expressing passion in your conversations, validating each other’s feelings, and focusing on building a hopeful, connected future as you embrace a new chapter together.
- Mastering effective communication, prioritizing quality time as a couple, and fostering emotional and physical intimacy for a deeper connection.

About Me
Meet Your Certified Relationship Coach - Julie
I’ve always wanted to make a meaningful difference in people’s lives. When my mom passed away, it was a wake-up call—life is too short to wait. If you want to make an impact, you have to go for it.
After years of chaotic relationships and emotional ups and downs, I took a break from dating. Then, I met someone who truly loved me for who I was. Despite my initial hesitation, I found myself on the verge of marrying my best friend.
Before we said “I do,” we decided to take a pre-marital course. It was a game-changer, revealing the vital aspects of a relationship that are so often overlooked.
Fast forward 22 years, with two kids, five dogs, and countless lessons learned, I went back to school, became a certified Relationship Coach, and founded Living in Love Coaching. Now, I get to help others build the strong, loving connections they deserve.
My Clients
Love Coaching is not Only For My San Mateo Couples!
Singles in The Bay Area
Singles
Dating Couples in the Bay Area
Dating Couples
Married Couples in The Bay Area
Married Couples
Empty Nesters in The Bay Area
Empty Nesters
My Services
Relationship Coaching For Couples in San Mateo & The Bay Area
Couples coaching for San Mateo and The Bay Area designed to uncover the key ingredients of a successful relationship and help you set clear, actionable goals to strengthen and sustain your connection.


My Services
Relationship Coaching For Singles in San Mateo & The Bay Area
Reconnecting As a Couple
S and J had been married for six years when they began feeling disconnected. Miscommunication and a lack of appreciation had crept into their daily lives, leaving both partners feeling unheard and unvalued.
The Process
S and J were star clients because they fully embraced the tools and strategies we worked on together. Starting with weekly sessions, we addressed their communication gaps, built new habits of acknowledgment and appreciation, and focused on rebuilding emotional intimacy. Gradually, we moved to bi-weekly, then three-week, and finally monthly sessions as they gained confidence and independence.
The Results
S and J completely transformed their relationship. By implementing the tools provided, they learned to communicate with clarity, express gratitude regularly, and prioritize one another in meaningful ways. They not only improved their connection but also gained the skills to maintain their progress long-term. They “graduated” from sessions, no longer needing my guidance, and now enjoy a strong, thriving marriage built on respect, love, and understanding.
Key Takeaway
S and J’s success is a testament to what can happen when both partners commit to doing the work and apply what they learn.
Building a Marriage After 30+ Years Together
In their sixties and married for over 30 years, D and H had faced significant trauma in their relationship. While each partner was working with individual therapists to process their personal experiences, they came to me to focus on creating shared goals for their relationship moving forward.
The Process:
D and H were committed to building something new while honoring their long history together. The journey was not easy—healing and rebuilding a foundation after decades of challenges takes time and patience. We worked on small, manageable steps to help them reconnect emotionally, rebuild trust, and establish a vision for the future of their marriage.
The Results:
Over time, D and H created a “new marriage,” one filled with renewed understanding, care, and purpose. They learned to communicate with compassion, acknowledge each other’s pain, and focus on the years ahead rather than the struggles of the past. Their willingness to stay committed to the process has allowed them to enter this new phase of life together with hope and connection.
Key Takeaway:
Even after decades of marriage, transformation is possible. D and H’s journey shows that with commitment, patience, and small steps, couples can heal and create a relationship that works for the future.
Going From Surviving to Thriving in a Busy Life
S and G were a highly successful couple in their late 40s, juggling demanding careers and raising three children involved in multiple sports and activities. Their lives were consumed with work, family logistics, and to-do lists, leaving no time to prioritize their relationship. The breaking point came when the wife accused her husband of having an affair. Though there was no infidelity, it was a wake-up call for both of them: they had grown distant, emotionally and physically.
The Process:
In our sessions, we worked on rebuilding emotional intimacy and rediscovering their connection. S and G learned to prioritize their relationship, even in the chaos of their busy lives. We implemented tools to improve communication, schedule intentional time together, and nurture their bond. As their emotional connection grew, the physical intimacy followed naturally.
The Results:
S and G transformed their marriage from one of survival to one that thrives. They now communicate effectively, share quality time as a couple, and feel connected emotionally and physically. Their relationship has become a source of strength and joy, despite the busyness of life.
Key Takeaway:
S and G’s story highlights the importance of prioritizing the relationship. No matter how demanding life becomes, a thriving marriage is possible when couples are willing to reconnect and commit to meaningful change.
Ready to Rediscover Love and Connection?
Let’s work together to create the love story you’ve always dreamed of. Don’t wait any longer – start building a stronger, happier relationship today!
Testimnonials
Sweet Words From Clients



before you go
A little love note from Julie
I want to tell you that I’m here for you. If you’re having a tough time with love or just want to make your relationship stronger, I can help.
Everyone deserves a happy relationship where they feel loved and understood. Let’s work together to make that happen for you.

