Relationship Coaching For Singles

Relationship Coaching

For singles

Are you single and alternating between being on top of the world to feeling like your train left the station?

While it can feel like everyone is expecting you to rush into the next relationship, being single can be extremely enjoyable and fulfilling. And you definitely don’t have to rush into a new commitment just for the sake of checking a box.

Believe it or not, being single doesn’t have to feel like some awkward waiting period or a sign you’re doing something wrong. It’s your time to learn how to love yourself, figure out who you are, and create the life you love before anyone else enters the picture. You get to design the world you want to live in from your self care routine to the potted plants in your study.

Easier said than done, naturally! Repeating relationship patterns can linger, self-doubt can creep in, plus it can be hard to put your fears aside and get back into dating. This is where singles coaching comes in.

Working with a dating coach isn’t just for couples. Singles coaching is like knowing the exact questions that will be on the exam. Gain the guidance necessary to have a healthy relationship with yourself first, and learn the tools to set yourself up for success attracting and preserving the kind of partner you know you deserve.

Ready to build confidence, release old patterns, and truly heal so you can date again and find the love of your life when you are ready?

Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don't put your life on hold waiting for love.

IS 1:1 SINGLES COACHING RIGHT FOR YOU?

Rediscovering Yourself as a Single Individual​

You’re so ready to embrace this season of life, but let’s be honest, it doesn’t always feel easy. You’re here because you want to stop feeling stuck, break free from old patterns, and start living a life that feels full of passion, purpose, and joy.


Go from…

  • Feeling like being single means you’re “behind” or missing out.
  • Carrying self-doubt, insecurities, or the emotional baggage of past relationships.
  • Falling into old patterns, like chasing unavailable partners or settling for less than you deserve.
  • Feeling disconnected from who you really are and what you want out of life.
  • Wondering how to be single without feeling lonely or stuck.
  • Attracting toxic partners who leave you wondering why you even try.

To…

  • Building confidence by learning how to love yourself and appreciating your own worth.
  • Gaining clarity on what you truly need in a partner and setting relationship boundaries that honor your values.
  • Creating fulfilling routines and setting goals for your single and love life that fill you with excitement.
  • Feeling empowered and independent while staying open to the possibilities of love.
  • Rekindling your relationship with YOU, because you’re worth showing up for.
  • Not settling for less than you deserve and feeling confident to enter a long term commitment.

Coaching For Singles & Process

Singles Coaching Program: Envision

Rediscover your power, embrace your relationship with yourself and gain the confidence to invite someone new to share in your adventures. No more settling! Prepare for a future relationship at your own pace and with the tools to make it a lasting and fulfilling long term commitment.

Sessions are conducted via video or phone calls, allowing you to engage from the comfort of your own home.

In addition to your coaching sessions, you’ll have access to text and email support. I am here to provide guidance, answer questions, and offer encouragement whenever you need it.

Every achievement, no matter how small, deserves recognition. Throughout your journey, we’ll celebrate your progress together, reinforcing your commitment to growth and transformation.

Individual Coaching Sessions

Whether you’re single and figuring things out, or part of a couple looking to grow stronger together, the individual sessions can support you. Receive the guidance, tools, and encouragement you need to navigate life’s twists and turns with confidence.

Cost: $160 per 1 hour long session

The amount of sessions you will need will depend on your progress and needs as an individual. 

Sessions are conducted via video or phone calls, allowing you to engage from the comfort of your own home.

FAQ's

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About Me

Meet Your Certified Love Coach for Singles - Julie

Are you navigating the ups and downs of being single and wondering how to create a fulfilling life on your own or how to have a meaningful relationship in the future? Do you feel stuck in old patterns, questioning your worth, or unsure how to learn how to love yourself fully before letting someone else in?

That’s where I come in.

As a certified relationship coach for singles, I help individuals like you break free from limiting beliefs, embrace the beauty of independence, and discover what it truly means to thrive on your own terms. Whether you’re looking to grow personally, heal from past relationships, or prepare for the right one, I’ll guide you toward creating a life and future rooted in self-awareness, confidence, and authentic connection.

Ready to Rediscover Yourself?

Ready to build confidence, release old patterns, and truly heal so you can date again and find the love of your life?

Past Client Stories

THIS SINGLE WOMAN LEARNED TO EMBRACE VULNERABILITY

Overcoming Commitment Phobia

D.F., a 29-year-old single woman, struggled with commitment phobia stemming from her parents’ dysfunctional marriage. Fearful of repeating their mistakes, she avoided vulnerability and cut off connections after just one date. Despite dreaming of marriage and children, she felt paralyzed by her fears.

The Journey

With a therapist addressing past trauma and our coaching sessions focused on her present behaviors, D.F. took small steps toward opening herself to connection. She learned to view vulnerability as a strength, practiced mindfulness to manage anxiety, and approached dating with curiosity instead of judgment.

The Outcome

D.F. broke free from her avoidance patterns, going on multiple dates with an open mind and enjoying genuine connections. Though not yet married, she feels empowered to pursue meaningful relationships, confident in her ability to balance independence and intimacy.

The Big Takeaway

D.F.’s story illustrates that even small steps can lead to profound change. By addressing past fears and embracing openness, she paved the way for personal growth and connection.

Rediscovering Himself

A.D., a 52-year-old single father, was overwhelmed by the demands of raising a special needs son, working two jobs, and managing a strained relationship with his ex. Feeling lost and disconnected, he sought coaching to rediscover his identity and create a fulfilling life for himself.

The Journey:

We began by setting boundaries with his ex and prioritizing A.D.’s self-care. He transitioned to a single job, reducing burnout, and carved out time for hobbies like hiking and photography. A.D. rebuilt his support system and reconnected with his passions, creating space for reflection and balance.

Our Outcome:

With a renewed sense of self, A.D. now feels more in control and confident. Dating remains a secondary focus, but he’s ready to pursue meaningful relationships when the time is right, knowing his life is grounded in balance and self-awareness.

The Takeaway:

A.D.’s journey highlights that sometimes, finding love begins with finding yourself. By addressing his struggles and prioritizing his well-being, he created a foundation for a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Finding a Healthy Relationship

V.M., a 43-year-old single woman, found herself stuck in a cycle of dating emotionally unavailable people, leaving her frustrated and longing for a meaningful connection. She reached out for coaching, ready to break free from this pattern and attract a partner who aligned with her values and aspirations.

The Journey:

V.M. committed to deep inner work, starting with uncovering the recurring patterns in her past relationships. Together, we clarified her vision for a meaningful partnership, emphasizing emotional compatibility, shared values, and aligned life goals. She identified her non-negotiables, established boundaries, and began practicing self-compassion to rebuild her self-esteem.

As she prepared to reenter the dating world, V.M. developed new tools to approach relationships intentionally. She asked thoughtful questions, prioritized emotional foundations, and trusted her intuition to recognize red flags and walk away when needed.

The Outcome:

After months of intentional work and mindful dating, V.M. met someone who reflected the vision she had created. Their relationship is built on kindness, emotional availability, and mutual respect. Now, V.M. feels fulfilled and confident, equipped with the skills to navigate challenges and continue growing within this healthy partnership.

What to Take Away:

V.M.’s story shows that finding the right relationship often starts with self-discovery. By addressing her patterns and focusing on personal growth, she transformed her dating journey and created the relationship she always desired.

Testimnonials

Sweet Words From Clients

"We had a wonderful session with Julie—she was incredibly helpful and supportive. As it was our first time trying couples counseling, we weren’t sure what to expect, but she immediately made us feel at ease. Julie not only created a safe and comfortable environment, but also equipped us with the tools and confidence to navigate future challenges together. We left feeling empowered and optimistic. Highly recommend!" - Miranda D.

before you go

A little love note from Julie

 I want to tell you that I’m here for you. If you’re having a tough time with love or just want to make your relationship stronger, I can help.

Everyone deserves a happy relationship where they feel loved and understood. Let’s work together to make that happen for you.

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